Shell In Your Pocket

Encouraging Along The Way

2012-01-21T16:55:00.004-05:00

This past week, I met with some mom's at a wonderful and unique coffee shop. It has a "lending library" and even serves a wonderful hot latte with cinnamon on top! It was a time of fellowship and joining together of like minds. We shared some of our favorite reads from 2011. I came home with a great "list" of books I can't wait to read this year!

Just bouncing ideas off each other and encouraging one another is so important. I would say "especially" in home schooling. But, I think all moms need encouraging....daily struggles like homework, getting dinner on the table or should I let him "text"? Sometimes just laughing about those "daily" things can be a relief. Or listening to other mom's talk about their prayer and devotional time---it is so good!!!

Moms encouraging moms! Especially home school moms because sometimes you can feel like you are on a deserted island (well, you and your kids are on a deserted island!).

Old Fashion Discipline...

2012-01-09T19:58:00.004-05:00

He didn't make his bed....

either did she!

My Word...

2012-01-04T20:15:00.003-05:00

The laundry for this VERY moment is caught up. I think I did too many loads to even count. The house is {CLEAN}. The meals are planned and the new calendar for the year is up. Our last Christmas decoration is put away and I love a "clean" house. Isn't it amazing that Christmas decorations are so pretty when you put them up at the start of the holiday. However, it feels "cluttery" after the New Year...is that just me???

I have tried to "steal" any moment I can to go through all my pictures from the holiday. I have some great ones but my two favorites are in this post. I love "beach" pictures. It was a salty, windy day at the beach that morning. My camera got all salty and foggy so I pulled out my iphone. The ocean was roaring and the smells coming off the water were delicious! Life seems to stop at the beach- you actually NOTICE things around you like shells, colors of sand, old ocean rotted wooded,colored glass and funny footprints in the sand.

Each year, I usually pick a word for the year. I thought of my word on the beach. "NOTICE"! Life is busy and hectic- sometimes I don't notice much but what I have to accomplish that day. Other words that mean similar to NOTICE are...

observe, attending, interested, discover, sight, find, sense,

I think this is going to be a good word...

Perfect for a Cold Day

2012-01-03T14:36:00.004-05:00

Well, if you are in most areas of the US, you are experiencing snow or chilly temperatures. My husband is from the south and always loves eating the "southern" food while we are in the Carolinas. He loves Brunswick stew and always talks about his grandmothers cooking. I must admit I don't think I will ever be able to "copy" her cooking. I think she was just a natural cook who could throw anything in it and make it "yummy".

However, I have a great recipe for Brunswick stew and he likes it (but I know not as much as his "granny"). It is very yummy and it makes ALOT but that is nice because you have two meals for sure. It's perfect with a side of warm cornbread and butter with a little honey, too!

My sister in law has taken her grandma's recipe and made a quick "version". It's yummy and my son had three bowls!

My Sister-In-Law's Brunswick Stew

(28 oz.) cans Hunt’s crushed tomatoes
(29 oz.) can Hunt’s tomato sauce
(12 oz.) can Hunt’s tomato paste
(48 oz.) carton or 3 (14 oz.) cans Swanson chicken broth
stick margarine or butter
store bought, fully cooked Rotisserie chicken, usually found near the deli section
medium size beef roast, fully cooked in beef broth &then cut into bite size pieces
c. chopped onions
Tbsp. Worchestershire sauce
(14 ½ oz.) cans Del Monte lima beans, drained & rinsed
(29 oz.) or 4 (15.25 oz.) cans Del Monte whole kernel corn, drained & rinsed
(29 oz.) or 2 (14.5 oz.) cans Del Monte whole potatoes, drained, rinsed & mashed
Tbsp. hot pepper sauce, such as Texas Pete, Frank’s, etc.
Tbsp. sugar, or to taste…Grandma’s recipe has 4 Tbsp., but I think that’s a little too sweet
crackers

Need: crockpot, large stock pot, cutting board with sharp knife, food processor, wire whisk, cooking shears, measuring cup, measuring spoons and long handled spoon

Tip: One day before making stew, purchase an already cooked rotisserie chicken from grocery store. Remove skin, debone and cut up chicken into pieces or use food processor to shred. Cover and refrigerate. Put the roast beef in a crockpot and just cover with beef broth or water and cook until fully cooked. Let cool and remove beef from broth. Cover and refrigerate overnight.

Fill stockpot with chicken broth, crushed tomatoes, tomato sauce and tomato paste. Add a stick of margarine or butter. Finely chop onions and add to stock. Add the worchestershire sauce and hot pepper sauce to taste. Add the cut-up or shredded chicken. Remove beef from the refrigerator and cut-up with kitchen shears or shred in food processor. Add to the stock pot.

Open and drain all canned vegetables, except the potatoes. Rinse off vegetables and add them to the stock. Lastly, about one hour before serving, open potatoes, drain, rinse and mash in food processor or with handheld electric mixer. Add mashed potatoes to stew and stir. Simmer and serve with cornbread.

Williamsburg

2012-01-02T06:07:00.007-05:00

Whew! We just got back from being gone over 10 days! Lots of family, opening gifts, eating and making memories....

We also went to Williamsburg and Jamestown for a couple of days. It was a lot of fun and of course, it was decorated beautifully! I could walk those streets forever...the quaint shops and cobblestone streets. We ate lunch at one of the oldest "pubs" in Williamsburg. It was fun and the smell of 'wood' burning warmed the soul.

So now we are home and I have loads and loads of laundry staring at me but it was all worth it!

Happy 2012! I know going into this year that I am thankful for my family and dear friends that I have been blessed with.

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-23T00:00:00.002-05:00

Three inches off

2011-12-22T00:00:00.001-05:00

My daughter got her hair cut- THREE inches off and you still can't tell. However, she cried and cried because she thought she could never wear her hair up or do a topsy turvy. So before we went out to eat I did her "swiss miss" do!

Letting go of tradition and adding "new"

2011-12-21T00:00:00.001-05:00

Every year, on Christmas Eve, my kids get a package on the front door. The package appears to have traveled the "world" with stamps and stickers. In this box, my kids receive their Christmas pajamas, ornament for the year and a Christmas movie or sometimes Christmas book. My kids get very excited when they find it there sitting on the cold,porch step.

However, my kids KNOW it's Mr. Sandy Toes and I. It's almost become a joke after 12 years. So this year, I made a hard decision and decided to give up that little "tradition" but a fun one! So this Christmas Eve, my kids will get a wrapped box with their pj's and stocking. It makes me sad but every year brings changes and those changes are very good,too!

For example, my daughter did ALL my Christmas cards this year- stamped them, licked them and put an address label on them! Wow- that was so nice!It's her new job every December! Maybe instead of "job" I will call it a "tradition".

Or this year, the girls and I made tons of Christmas cookies from sugar cookies, lintzer cookies and pinwheel cookies. It was a lot of fun and the girls are actually good at it! It was fun to listen to Christmas music and bake with them.

So even as the years bring change, each 'season' brings something new. I guess as each Christmas pasts, I realize more and more that you need to appreciate and enjoy the moment because it goes fast. It seems like yesterday when I would worry about the presents being opened so that none of the little "pieces" would get in the baby's mouth- it feels like yesterday!

Traditions are a beautiful addition to "family life" but sometimes you need to put them aside and see the beauty in new ones- it makes life a little sweeter!

Nutcracker

2011-12-20T00:00:00.000-05:00

We went to the Nutcracker on Friday.  It was beautiful and the costumes were amazing.  My son was not exactly thrilled to attend the "ballet".  However, a little "culture' won't him! My girls enjoy dressing up more than actually watching the show.  They wore their Christmas dresses and their shiny black shoes.

It was a sold out show so that made it "alive" and many "Bravos" were yelled out! I love going downtown during the holidays. Everything is lit up and the big Christmas tree is in center with everyone ice skating. It's beautiful.

My Favorite THINGS...

2011-12-19T00:00:00.002-05:00

Here are a few of my "favorite things" this year....

 I am completely in LOVE with Cath Kidston phone cases.  I only have one but I am in love with all her patterns!

 What is a kitchen without a salt pig?  Williams and Sonoma have wonderful salt pigs even QVC does!  Even if you are "challenged" in the kitchen- a salt pig makes you feel like a chef!

It's hot chocolate- do I need to say more?

I could put all my top favorite things from this store...Anthropolgie!  I love this glass milk "cups"- each part is a cup, 1/2 cup, 1/4 cup- so cute!

Who needs coffee shops when you have a milk frother?  I am in love with my milk frother and it is great for hot chocolate, too!

Tea towels are a weakness of mine- I love modern, primitive and all in between.  I love this bird tea towel.

Sorry, but another cute measuring set from Anthropolgie!  Handpainted and beautiful in any kitchen.

A dutch oven is a staple in my opinion...if you don't have one ask for one!  It makes the most "moist" meat and delicious roasts.

Lily of The Valley from Crabtree is my favorite lotion this year.  It smells so pretty and feminine!

That's it- these are some of my favorite things this year that I have come to love in 2011! Some of these would make great gifts for anyone on your list...even YOU!

Wreath cookies

2011-12-17T16:58:00.003-05:00

Today, we made MY favorite cookie....I remember my grandmother making these cookies. I was only allowed two. As my girls and I were making the cookies, I remember vividly my grandmother's house...her little dog would run around with his winter boots to go out. I loved that dog...we would actually play hide and seek...I would count then hide and he would come and get me.

My grandmother also made very yummy "thumbprints" with jam.

These cookies are easy and fun for the kids!

Christmas Wreaths

.5 cups butter

3 cups mini marshmallows

1 tsp. vanilla extract

1 tsp. green food color

4 cups of corn flakes

red hot candies

Melt butter, add marshmallows, stirring until all marshmallows are melted. Add extracts and food coloring; stir until it is a uniform green color. When mixture is smooth, add corn flakes; mix well but gently so as not to crush the cornflakes. Form into wreath shaped on wax paper and decorated with red cinnamon candies. Let cool.

Tell me your favorite Christmas cookies in the comment section.

Hairdryers to Smelly Stickers

2011-12-15T16:33:00.007-05:00

This morning, we had our last lesson for the year! It's finally starting to feel like Christmas. Yesterday, I did ALL and I mean ALL my Christmas shopping right down to tape and wrapping paper. I didn't have ONE thing bought at 2p.m. but had it all done by 8:00p.m.!

While in the midst of a crazy mall with crazy people...I texted my friend to see if she wanted to do dinner. We met and talked, talked! She is a friend that has kept me completely "sane" during this decision of "homeschooling". She is my sounding block--somehow, when I just want to cry- we end up laughing about it! Nothing like a few "laughs" and lettuce wraps (they were yummy!).

This has been a very hard year with kids and gifts. They really didn't have ONE thing they want...my kid's "list" ranged from hairdryers to packs of smelly stickers. So maybe that is why I could finish it all in one day...

Well, my Christmas music in on and I am about to make "cookies'...Tomorrow, we are suppose to go with some friends to see the "Nutcracker". My girls have their dresses laid out with jewerly and nylons to match...they are so funny! Now, my son has a ticket, too! However, he has given me the Top Ten Reasons Why He Shouldn't Go!

"Minivan Express"-An Oldie but a "Goldie" Post

2011-12-12T00:00:00.001-05:00

Today, I am sharing with you one of my favorite family traditions...its not glitzzy, glamourous or tinsley! It's simple and can be done by any family! I don't know how this all began...I am sure someone shared this with me nine years ago(WELL NOW IT'S BEEN 12 years!)...we have "tweaked" it through the years!

ALL ABOARD!!!! TICKET PLEASE!

We usually do this the second week in December when neighborhoods have their houses decorated and lit up. My kids never know when and we never talk about it till that night! My husband and I pick a night...the kids get in pjs...teeth brushed..like any other night. But, when they pull their sheets back there is a golden ticket for our Minivan Express. It's always fun to hear the first child who notices..there are screams and giggles..."Did you get the ticket???" "Go Look Go Look"...

They run downstairs. We collect the tickets to get on the Mini Van Express..there is popped popcorn in the seats...Christmas candy in little bags....and their Christmas light "glasses". We have Christmas music on and we travel around the city looking at lights on all the houses!

Three years ago, I found these glasses like 3D glasses to look at Christmas lights. Some of the glasses turn the lights into snowmen or snowflakes. You can find them in special toy shops...they run about $3! It is so fun to look through them!

After, we stop at Dunkin Donuts or Krispy Kreme and get hot chocolate before we head home! It is so simple but my kids love it! It's cheap...easy...but full of memories that last! I hope one day my kids will share this tradition with their children and pick up "Grandma" on the way!

Christmas movies

2011-12-09T11:32:00.003-05:00

Last night, we just needed a break from all the school work, piano and  "stuff".  We all sat down and watched "The Elf".  I love that movie.  It  makes me laugh because he is such a "nut" and REALLY thinks he is an  "elf".  I love when he goes into the coffee shop and congratulates  them!  It's great!

There are so many great Christmas movies out. Just pop some popcorn and make it a "movie" night! Christmas is going so fast and honestly, I haven't even "stepped" on the Christmas train- not one gift bought, not one cookie baked...I guess watching "Elf" got me in the season to pull out the candy canes and flour.

Monday I am going to post an "old" blog post- It's our favorite tradition- it's easy but a Keeper!

--you need "popcorn" for this one too!

magical...

2011-12-08T00:00:00.000-05:00

The girls and I went downtown yesterday and saw the "Christmas Carol" play. It was a wonderful play and truly magical. The scenery was so pretty and realistic and the actors really pulled you into the story. It was a real treat!!!

If you have this "play" showing near you- GO see it!!! I was so glad we did! Next week, all of us are going to see the Nutcracker. I heard they "changed" it so I am not quite sure what this means but I am looking forward to it!

Christmas and Cookies

2011-12-06T00:00:00.001-05:00

My kids made Christmas cookies last week. Isn't it amazing that Christmas is just the time to make cookies? I never make sugar cookies or really any type of cookie (except for the occasional chocolate chip cookie) until the Christmas season. I find myself looking at magazines in search for a new Christmas cookie recipe. I did find one last week that has "cherries" in it- it looked VERY yummy but I haven't tried baking them yet.

The kids enjoyed making the cookies. I think they actually enjoyed playing in the flour just a little more and eating the "decorations" before they actually made it on any cookie. Straight sprinkles from the jar! My son didn't put any frosting on his cookies. He just kept his sugar cookies plain and took another plate and put red hots and miniature m&m's to eat.

My favorite Christmas cookies are the green dyed wreaths made from cornflakes with the red hot candies on the bottom. I have memories of my grandmother making them and I loved how gooey they were. I don't think I have ever made those with my kids...maybe that will be the Christmas cookie we do this year!

Still waters.

2011-12-04T21:27:00.006-05:00

It's late. The kids are sleeping. I can't sleep.

I just read my Bible and texted my friend a verse....

"When you lie down, you will not be afraid; when you lie down; your sleep will be sweet."Proverbs 3.

Tonight, her daughter is in the hospital- she was in a car accident...a serious one.

I know because I received a call early this evening from a sheriff.

My daughter was in that car,too.

Tonight, behind me, my daughter is sleeping on our couch- whole and well. Our Lord protected her. Right now, as I read my Bible, I am more reminded of the statement "I AM". His presence and holiness is with me tonight.

"Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need."

It takes a split second...one phone call...to put everything in perspective. Things that seemed SO very important one minute before means nothing..absolutely nothing.

After getting my daughter, we were at a stop light and I reached back and held her hand. It was shaking and she was trembling. Her hand never felt so sweet in my hand as it did-I held it tightly and no words were said.

Someone on the scene told her that she is "ok" but may have nightmares....Tonight, we read Psalm 23

The Lord is My Shepherd I shall not want. He maketh me lie down in green pastures; He leadeth me besides the still waters. He restoreth my soul....

She was scared to close her eyes....but now she sleeps.

Her friend should be fine- she will have surgery with plastic surgeons to get her all fixed up! We praise God for this!

Edible "Cell"

2011-12-03T00:00:00.000-05:00

Nucleus, cell walls, DNA, RNA....we are studying anatomy in Science and Classical Conversations. 

We have been talking about cells and made a jello, edible "cell".  Just a little jello and candy and "Woila!"...a cell!  The candy represents all the parts of the cells.  It really brought the "parts" of the cell alive to my girls.

Plus they loved EATING the cell after we were done...nothing like eating a "nucleus" made out of sugar!

Preparing...

2011-12-02T00:00:00.003-05:00

We have started our Jesse Tree.  It is wonderful activity that allows the kids and parents to read through the Bible in preparing for Christ's birth.  It begins at Creation and goes through the royal line of David, Elijah, Jeremiah, Angels and much, much more.  Each day, we read a passage in the Bible and a short page on that day.  Sometimes, we have questions to discuss and prayer.

After we are done reading, my kids hang the ornament that matches that day.  It's a very simple activity but teaches the kids about the season and a Biblical view about Christmas.  The Jesse Tree seems to be becoming more popular.  You can buy books and even a felt kit. Our book is by Raymond and Georgene Anderson and it's just paper. Cut out the ornaments and tie it with a ribbon!It's something different and helps you to remember the great prophesies that were fulfilled and our strong heritage.

Downtown...

2011-12-01T00:00:00.001-05:00

The girls and I went downtown to hear the symphony.  I love going downtown (as long as I don't get lost!).   It was a nice break from our "normal" day.  The Music Hall is a beautiful old building that is a delight when you enter the doors.

I especially love the older gentlemen that usher you in.  They loved my girls and enjoyed talking to them.  Of course, my girls enjoy it to because they love to talk! I could go downtown for plays, concerts even the zoo EVERYDAY!  I love it!

Can't believe it's December!  We started our advent calender today!

Let is snow!

2011-11-30T00:00:00.002-05:00

It's been raining so we decided to make our own snow!

Starting to Look a Lot...

2011-11-29T00:00:00.000-05:00

Like Christmas!
It takes about a week or so (maybe more now that I am home schooling) to get all the Christmas stuff up.  My girls did a snowman project to make our classroom more festive.  Tomorrow, we are hanging snowflakes from the ceiling.  We also started our "Jesse Tree" early this year because we never seem to get it done.  I hope we do!

I have pulled out some (and I mean only "some") of our Christmas books. I also pulled a ton from our local library. Honestly, I feel like I need to take a gift to our local librarian because she pulls all my books every week. I just go to the front and the books are waiting...truly dreamy!

Weekend

2011-11-28T00:00:00.002-05:00

My mom and I got out while they were here.  We all were a little disappointed that my daughter couldn't join us for lunch on Friday (she is suppose to stay out of public germs for a while).  However, it was nice to spend it with my mom.  We went to our favorite little lunch place and did some shopping.  It's funny b/c we never buy anything till we get to this one store.   It's a perfect "match" for my mom's house!

Crazy enough we even went to Macy's this past weekend! It wasn't too bad honestly. I guess we missed the 2am crowd completely. Must be honest that I don't understand that "Black Friday" hoopla- of course, we had thoughts of joining in the fun this year. However, those thoughts fleeted quickly and we all went to bed.

This weekend went by so fast. We had fun playing games with my mom- the girls loved playing "LRC". It was quite exciting! Well, I have already started decorating and I am keeping it nice and simple!

It came and left...

2011-11-25T00:00:00.000-05:00

My favorite holiday was yesterday. It's hard to believe it came and left so quickly...it's just 24 hours! My house smelled of turkey and stuffing, football and talking filled the air, a time of thanks and pray, pumpkin pie and cool whip filled the bellies, board games and quick naps on the coach....

I love when my family sits around and we write what we are thankful for. We have been doing this since my son was teeny tiny. So much writing and so many memories from moving, to new houses to healing. It's amazing what a year can bring but again the Lord has spared us trials and blessed us beyond measure. It was hard to think of just one thing...

Since it has been recent, my daughter has been sick with pneumonia. I am thankful for doctors and modern medicine. You don't realize it till you or someone you love really needs it! I am thankful she sat right next to me at the Thanksgiving table yesterday.

2011-11-24T15:19:00.001-05:00

Chocolate with Chipolte Spice

2011-11-10T16:27:00.005-05:00

Today, I received my first "birchbox".  It is a box that has "high-end" products that you can try from lotions, makeup, perfume, powders...and the list goes on.  You get little samples to try and you never know what will be in the box.  This month, I received some nice lotions, nailpolish and CHOCOLATE!

This chocolate is not like any chocolate I have ever had! I don't know if I liked it or hated it. The chocolate is from "Choco Pod" and it is dark chocolate with chipolte, salt and popping candy. When you first bite, it seems like smooth chocolate until that chipolte hits the taste buds...WOW! It was a tantalizing "experience".

My son came home from practice and ate the rest of it on the counter. He didn't say a thing UNTIL later I saw him drinking a lot of water!!!!

Birchbox would make a great gift for any mother, sister or girl-friend especially if she likes to try products!!!

....a little thank you to my friend who sent me this box....it made my day a little sweeter!

Summer Meets Fall

2011-11-04T00:00:00.000-04:00

We are so in between seasons right now.  You never know what the temperature will be from one day to the next.  It can be hot or cold- flip flops or boots, shorts or pants, sleeveless or sleeves....you just don't know around here!

Since we have been home schooling, my kids have been picking out their clothes more. I don't have time to match and tie- I am usually downstairs in the morning getting ready while they dress. My girls are still pulling out their summer clothes. Today, she had her little summer dress with her fall boots on!

Skipping around...

Finding leaves....

If blogs had sound, you would hear me in the background saying "Come on, get in the car!". Of course, she knew I had my camera in my hands and was very willing to twirl and whirl...

After The First Bite

2011-11-02T20:22:00.005-04:00

I love recipes that are yummy and easy! My girls ALWAYS want to cook but sometimes it's just too hard or I don't even know what I am doing at the moment. But, we love to make "turtles"...they are super easy and you can find candy for any holiday. I found some "fall" m&m's on sale and we used them last night. We were going to share them with our friends at CC but we forgot them in the morning...oh shucks!

The girls can almost do the entire thing on their own!

Line up pretzels

Put a Rolo on top

Put in a 350 oven for 4 minutes

Take out and put an M&M in the middle and push down..woila! Let them cool! I also put some melted white chocolate on top to make them fancy!

My girls REALLY think they made something....after the first "bite"....You realize that they DID!

"State Bound"

2011-10-30T20:52:00.007-04:00

My daughter's team is going to the State Tournament! They played an unbelievable tournament last week and this week plus an undefeated season! The girls are so excited and so are the parents!

The girls had to wear yellow shirts because the other team was pink, too! But they had fun- even sprayed their hair PINK!

Circle Toys!

2011-10-29T13:50:00.004-04:00

This week, the new Toys R' Us Christmas edition magazine came!  It sat on my counter for DAYS...no one touched...no one picked it up...not even a "flip" of a page.

It was sad! I remember my kids would wrestle for it. They wanted to circle all the toys that they would love for Christmas. Everyone was given a different color marker and by the end of the day it was completely circled. It was empty this year and was thrown away like all the other "junk" mail in our box. Seasons of life change in a blink...

I remember sometimes getting frustrated with my kids over that toy magazine. It would be circled and pictures would be cut out. I would find little clips of magazine all over my floor and down the hallway. Today, I would love to pick up a few little clips and sit down right next to them and circle toys!

Just has to say "pumpkin"

2011-10-20T15:52:00.005-04:00

It is COLD outside! Chilly willy cold! We all have sweat shirts on and I am tempted to turn on the heat but not just yet! I have my coffee machine, my pumpkin spice coffee and Mr. Sandy Toes brought me pumpkin creamer! Who needs heat when you can warm up with a coffee that smells of sweet creamy pumpkin spice?

If a product has the word "pumpkin" on it- I am there and all for it! Pumpkin candles, pumpkin cake mix, pumpkin pancake mix {I have not been to Trader Joes in a while but I bet their shelves are full of "pumpkin" stuff}.

The girls and I are doing a unit on a "Fall Garden". It's all about those fun things of fall like scarecrows, leaves, farms and applesauce. Just throw in a couple of stories about pumpkins- let me grab my coffee and I am set for hours~

p.s. I have a new recipe in my crock pot from a dear sweet friend who shared her "chicken noodles" recipe. I can't wait to try it!

FaIrS

2011-10-17T20:50:00.002-04:00

I love FaiRs! I love Fall Fairs and Christmas Fairs! Tis..the season for Fairs-they are starting and upon us from now till December. Of course, you need a little "moola" to go along with the fairs but not necessary. I am happy just being there with a latte in my hand...surrounded by smells of spices and pine..crazy shopping women and fun stuff to look at!

My mom and I went to the Country Living Fair in September. A great Fall Fair surrounded by lots of fun pumpkins and house decor. I even love the early "Christmas" fairs held in schools in the local areas- great fun!

Protecting the "Important" things in life

2011-10-13T19:10:00.005-04:00

Our family dinners have evolved and change through the years. However, every family knows that "today's" schedule threatens and dissolves families eating together. In our family, we have had seasons in our lives that eating together as a family was zero to none. We were here and there and everywhere! We had to sit back and re-evaluate what is going on. Sometimes it takes hard decisions to do "good" things. I can't guarantee that we won't face those "seasons" again down the road.

We definitely don't have it all together. We still have evenings that we can barely make a ham sandwich quick enough to get in the car. However, as our family has grown and years are passing quickly by. I have become a little more protective of our family meals. I can look around the table and realize in unbelief that our "time" is fading. Of course, you never know the future, one of the families in our church has all their grown children home for a while due to certain situations. She has EVEN more people living there with new spouses and dogs! Life brings us many surprises along the way!

I want my kids to remember our dinners. I want them to talk and discuss and share! I want them to hear their dad and I talk and discuss and share. This is what is important...

Dinner can be overwhelming for me. I really have to plan or we will eat pizza every night! I have to be diligent to plan, defrost and set aside time to make the dinner. Sometimes, I cook from a different cookbook each week. I love to try new things but sometimes that can be tricky!! I made my first lamb roast today- a little scary for me! Yesterday, we had a "breakfast" dinner...the kids love this...homemade hashbrowns, eggs and bacon!

How do you "protect" your family dinner time?

Autumn Mosaic...

2011-10-10T18:52:00.003-04:00

Winter is an etching, spring a watercolor, summer an oil painting and autumn a mosaic of them all. ~Stanley Horowitz

Sincerely

2011-10-06T07:28:00.003-04:00

Dear "J......"

Last night, I sat on your soft glittery cushions in your dressing room watching my girls try on clothes at your store. A trip of shopping with my daughters was meant to be fun and enjoyable but soon came incredibly frustrating as each outfit was tried on. I must admit when you walk into your store it appears very fun! My girls love all the fuzzy pillows, rainbow socks, lip gloss and gummy bear earrings.

However, it seems like in the "middle" of the store, you have remembered that my daughters are still young. They are naive and still childish in their ways. They drip their ice cream on their shirt and play with their dolls and I can still stick a bow in their hair. They are YOUNG. They are CHILDREN. They are in the middle of some of the most innocent and fun years of their lives. They have imaginations and still slide down slides and splash in puddles!

But, someone in your company, has forgotten that my daughter is still a child! Whoever designs your clothes on the outer surrounding racks of your store must of got the wrong "memo". Maybe they thought they were designing clothes for 18 or 19 year olds and didn't realize that your store is for 9 and 10 year olds.

I sat there on those glittery cushions watching my daughter try on stuff that made her look 17 instead of almost 10! These years are precious and quick. Obviously, whoever designs your clothes does not have kids because they would know. I don't want my daughter to wear bell bottom jeans that suck her legs. Or ripped glittery shirts that spell "Peace"....I thought Woodstock was 20+ years ago??? Or tight black pants or low cut shirts??

Now, I know I can just not shop there. But your competition seems to have copied you because it's hard to find clothes that make my daughters look femine, young and still child-like. But, I search and I still hold my ground in your dressing room when all the mothers glare at me!What happened to "pretty"? Truly "pretty"? You seem to push the boundaries just as far as you can...

My girls will still want to go in there and we may spend another two hours in your dressing room. But, still come out with only a few "tops" and that is okay! I will protect them and guide them as best as I can and I hope other mothers will stand up against you too.

Sincerely,

a "mom"

yum!

2011-10-04T17:18:00.003-04:00

We have a new yogurt shop that opened up!! It's super yummy and has lots of different kinds of yogurt. It's called the "Orange Leaf"--check to see if you have one in your area! Our favorite flavor is "wedding cake" but my kids love "pumpkin pie". There are at least 10 different types of flavors plus any topping you can imagine!

When I went the first time, I wasn't sure about this place. But, it has really become a favorite spot for us. Even just a little bit- is a "perfect" treat for the end of the day! Our local Orange Leaf has happy hour on Wednesday between 3 and 5-it's 50% off! Now that is my kind of "happy hour".

Trying new "things"

2011-10-03T17:43:00.002-04:00

We are in a "season" of our lives of NEW THINGS!  We have been doing some stuff that we normally don't do!  We joined a swim team- all three can do it!  all at the same time! all on the same day!  This is a first for us!

My kids really like it and I LOVE the swim coach! She is tough but REALLY good and wants the kids to learn. We have our own pool but my kids did not know how to dive in! Just after a few weeks, my kids are all doing it!!! My youngest dived into 12 ft into the middle of a hoop laying on the water- THIS IS MAJOR PROGRESS!!!

We have our first swim meet at the end of the month. The kids are a bit nervous but it will be great!

a beautiful day...

2011-09-29T21:27:00.005-04:00

Today, the kids and I took a little trip to a local apple farm.  The sun was shining and a light breeze was blowing across the green hills.

It brought "joy" to my heart to see all the pumpkins lined up and sticky carmel apples poked with a wooden stick on the counter.

We brought our lunch and added a little apple cider and fresh made cider donuts. My kids drank frozen apple cider but I personally enjoyed the regular. The farm had ducks, pigs, and horses. My kids enjoyed watching the ducks and chickens roam around. My youngest wouldn't put down her legs b/c she was scared a chicken would "cluck" her. My son seemed to find the energy to chase the rooster around the barn. I told him to "Watch it!"- you can never be sure of a rooster!

Finally, I purchased a few pumpkins for my porch and some cute green gourds. My summer flowers are still in bloom. However, I think that will be ending soon with a very chilly weekend upon us.

another season...

2011-09-13T00:00:00.001-04:00

It was almost feeling like Fall last week. However, we are back to VERY hot weather but slowly there are signs that a new season is around the corner. I bought my first package of "pumpkins". I love to eat the first pumpkin out of the package. It taste so good! But, after that I can't seem to stomach anymore. Only the first one and ONLY one taste good to me! My kids love them!!!

The leaves are starting to change slowly and REALLY starting to fall. Which brings me to another reason why there is a new season coming. Our pool is closing today! It is a bit sad but every time I see a leaf fall into that pool. I can't wait for it to close. The pool is a constant thing "to do" once the leaves start changing. Putting up the suntan lotion and folding up the beach towels is sad but I am a bit excited to exchange it with pumpkins, mums and haystacks!

morning favorite

2011-09-12T00:00:00.000-04:00

I can't get to Starbucks like I use to but that is okay! I have made my "own" coffee bar even with a Vanilla syrup pump! Some mornings I drink coffee and sometimes it's tea and sometimes it's diet pop!

My Keurig has become a "favorite" in my kitchen and my kids love to make hot chocolate. They are waiting for cold weather b/c it's hard for me to see them drinking hot chocolate when it's 90 degrees.

Two weeks down!

2011-09-10T17:30:00.004-04:00

We have had our first two weeks of Classical Conversations! We really like it and it's a perfect fit for our "homeschooling" year! My kids love that they go to class and can see some friends. It seems like we carry a lot that day b/t dropping my son off to class and going to CC. This all fits in our trunk!

It's crazy!

We are doing American History Cycle. I think this is great- we need more American History in our schools and classrooms. Maybe if we did, we wouldn't read or hear on the news what is going on in Washington and politics in general! How can we ever expect our children to protect the "Constitution" of our country when they don't know it or even understand why it was written!

Anyhow, let me step off my "soapbox"....

I love this!

2011-09-04T20:14:00.000-04:00

I may have a newborn...

2011-08-31T21:38:00.004-04:00

Yesterday morning, my kids were pouring their cereal and we quickly found out that I was out of milk! Not one drop left! It has been years since I just ran out of something and didn't even know it! Like when I brought my 3rd child home from the hospital!

I am starting to think that having a newborn is the same as starting homeschooling...

1. First, I have no food- I am running out of things faster than I can stock it! I am so tired that going to the grocery store at night is complete torture!

2. My house looks like I have a newborn!!!

3. I live in one AREA of the house! My schoolroom- I start my day there and I end my day there. Just like a newborn after a c-section- I stayed on the first floor -guest room! No difference just not cleaning bottles but reading curriculum.

4.I do not have a crying baby or diapers to change- but I do have "Can you help me?", " I don't understand this", "HELP ME!", "Where's my teacher?" almost every 5 minutes from someone unless I am doing a formal instruction.

5. I don't have mid night feedings but I am up at midnight. Thinking, pondering about what we are doing tomorrow??!!!

6. I barely leave my house just like when I had a newborn (thank goodness for CC!)- after a few days- it takes me a couple minutes to adjust to the sun!

7. When I had a newborn, I lived in my nightgown those first couple of weeks. I could NOW because who the HECK is going to see me but my kids. They beg me to stay in their pjs but we DON'T!

8.When I brought my newborn home, I felt GUILT- guilt that the others weren't getting attention, etc. etc. I still feel GUILT- are they going to be smart? will they get into college despite their mother!

9. I waited forever to get highlights in my hair after the babies were born. Right now, I need highlights so bad- I look like a skunk! But, taking 3 kids to the hairdresser seems ABSOLUTE torture and looking like an "animal" that sprays it's prey-almost sounds better!

10. Lastly, when I brought home that newborn, I was to tired to barely talk to my husband let alone- anything else! Now, I am just as tired and instead of "talking"- I am begging him to print off my downloaded test booklet for tomorrow!!!

I don't have a newborn but it sure feels like it! It's wrapped up in a blanket and I handle it with care...it's name is "Home Schooling"!!

movies and popcorn

2011-08-30T05:44:00.003-04:00

I love to go to the movies.  I even enjoy kid movies (if they are good!).  Probaly my favorite movie this summer was the "The Help".  First, you MUST read the book then see the movie.  I thought it was REALLY good and the actors were GREAT!

 

The girls and I saw the "Smurfs". It was an okay movie for it being about little blue people. I remember being a kid and watching Saturday morning cartoons. I loved the smurfs!Things have changed so much since we were kids (sounding pretty old here!). You had to wait almost a whole week to watch your favorite cartoons- Saturday! Now, kids have cable, Netflix, ipods etc- it's instant gratification and no waiting needed. I think waiting till Saturday to watch cartoons is what made them extra special! You had to get up REALLY early to see the good ones and when 11:00 am came around- it was nearly over till next week!

Do they even still have Saturday cartoons?

...it was colorful!

2011-08-29T00:00:00.000-04:00

We have been working REALLY hard the past week! I have signed my girls up for an art class starting next month. However, everyday they ask if we are doing "Art"! So we did a watercolor-writing project about our summer. It was fun- it was writing- it was colorful!

Thanks to a wonderful blog I found...go here! It's a wonderful site for kid's art and full of ideas!

celebrating!

2011-08-26T00:00:00.002-04:00

My son had a great birthday!  I offered him a party but he said he wanted a "family" birthday!  So he started his day off with breakfast with dad.  We later went to the local amusement park (it was HOT!)!  Ended at his favorite restaurant for dinner and enjoyed cake and gifts!

...busy as bees

2011-08-25T00:00:00.001-04:00

Our first day went great! As great as it could be! I will also be my worst "critic". I never did this as a classroom teacher but these are MY kids! I want them to do even better.

We started the day off with an early special breakfast of pancakes, fruit and bacon! The kids were happy to see their little special gifts on their plates. Do you remember those fun pens with the 6 different colors that you push down? I found them and they LOVE them!!! All my kids love tic tacs(thank you, Papa!)! My youngest eats just one a day to save them whereas my middle child has none left!

In just the three days of starting this- I am amazed how MUCH time I wasted b/t carpooling, waiting and more waiting! I do have my kids home- 24/7 but I do seem to have the "time" but just need to use it wisely!!! Next week, our schedule will get fuller because my two oldest are starting piano and theory at a music school. My girls start CC, too and my middle is starting LATIN(and so is her mother!).

So there is a lot of tweeking and tweeting still to be done...

your day!

2011-08-24T00:00:00.001-04:00

Today, you are one year older and I know it was just yesterday and you were pulling around your Thomas the Engine. Time has gone by to fast- "They" told me it would but I didn't believe them. Until I saw you as my little boy and then turned around again and see you becoming a "young" man!

Happy Birthday, son!

Our Motto

2011-08-23T17:40:00.005-04:00

Well, this is our first week of "home schooling".  I can't really say how I am feeling either way- right now I can only think of the word "neutral".  However, I am taking one day at a time..maybe one hour...or minute!

We picked a "motto" or "quote" for our year! I had three choices and they each got a ballot to vote! We talked about them and then we voted. This is just for our year- a goal, something to discuss and strive for. It's a summary of what we are doing or "want" to do!

My kids voted for this-

"The first priority of my life is to be holy, and the second goal of my life is to be a scholar." by John Wesley

I think this was a good one! I think it's perfect!

I realize "ALREADY" that I don't feel sufficient(even though by worldy standards I am qualified) and that I am at peace that the Lord already knows their path. He will use this year, this day, to fulfill his plan for my kid's lives.

This quote is just as much for me as it is my kids!

My middle schooler(...it's hard to believe!)

My fourth grader

My first grader

What I have learned...

2011-08-17T21:26:00.010-04:00

I am going to attempt to do a new series on my blog called "What I have learned".  I have received some emails asking me if my blog is going to turn into a "home schooling" blog.  Honestly, I haven't thought too much about it but I do know that home schooling will be part of our everyday life.  However, I thought I would try to do some new "posts" called

I was at a meeting for Classical Conversations (homeschooling program) to meet our tutor {loved her!}.  Our tutor pulled out a folder that had every page in a plastic sleeve- it was pretty fancy!  Everyone "whoooed" and "ahhhhhed".  It was funny- it was plastic sleeve envy at it's finest!  {including me!}

I have learned that home school moms LOVE to put every piece paper in a plastic sleeve. I am not joking! If it is not consumable- that "baby" is going in a plastic sleeve-pronto! I think Staples makes a mint on home school moms from all their purchases of " plastic sleeves".

I have been resisting this urge, however, slowly but surely I am falling into the "plastic sleeve- EVERYTHING". Just came back from Office Max with TWO boxes of plastic sleeves- who needs pencils and paper??!!!

That is what I have learned!

excitement.

2011-08-16T14:09:00.003-04:00

School is starting on Monday! I have been planning and panicking all at the same time. My girls are VERY VERY excited! We were at the grocery store and the cashier asked "When are you starting school?" and my youngest daughter said "I don't know but you can ask my teacher- she is standing right here!" She was a bit puzzled. Honestly, my first reaction was to turn around to find her "teacher" but then I realized it's ME!

Their "excitement" is contagious though! I don't want to disappoint them! We went to the Art museum last week. They kept asking me if this was a field trip. I told them we were just making a day of it but they insisted on calling it a "field trip". I think they would of been happy if I stuck a big ole' sticker on their shirt with their name on it!

she has been waiting....

2011-08-12T09:10:00.004-04:00

I think she liked it!!!!

2011-08-11T00:00:00.002-04:00

to our little mermaid~

happy happy birthday to you!

planning.

2011-08-08T13:21:00.006-04:00

Slowly, I have been getting ready for our "school year".  Being a teacher by trade, I love textbooks, curriculum, big pads of lined paper and apple stickers.  It has been quite fun setting things up.  I have been trying to use the furniture we already have- took some from the craft room...a little from the playroom and making do!

I must say the blogging world has been a huge encouragement on this new journey.

Some of my favorites who have inspired and encouraged...

Life in Grace

Mt. Hope

Simple Homeschool

Home Sweet Home

Sprittbee

I have already started to plan our first day! I have a long way to go but I am starting to get excited! Here are a few pictures...I am sure it will be different next week!

it starts with "H"

2011-08-04T18:17:00.006-04:00

This week, we went to our first official "gathering" for "h_______". No not a Hanukkah celebration,

or Halloween

or horse back riding

or hayride....HOMESCHOOLING!

I said it...okay, I typed it. I am excited and scccCARED to death all wrapped up in one! I have moments of true pure excitement and then moments of nothing less than calling my kids school secretary at home to enroll.

In midst, of this HUGE change, I do feel good that we are getting involved in a great program called Classical Conversations. So last night, was our first get together and everyone seemed very nice. I already have three moms that I know. We are all embarking on this journey for the first time together. All we do is laugh if not we may cry!

Next week, I am having a "Plan It Party" at my house. All of us who have never home schooled are getting together to plan our first day! Nothing short of a little party with appetizers possibly a little glass of wine around Saxon Math books~

favorite little spot...

2011-08-04T16:19:00.003-04:00

My mom and my girls go to a favorite "spot" when we visit!

 It is a sweet little tea room owned by two sisters.  The one sister does the tea room and across the street is a flower shop.  They are both a delight!

Wonderful, fresh lunches and yummy peach tea!

We look forward to going each year with my mom. They love to spend time with their Nana even though she won't take those glasses off so I can get a picture! :My girls love tea (with lots and lots of sugar). But, they especially love this place because they can pick any kind of tea!It is fun to have little 'spots' like this...it makes "life" a little bit sweeter!

hope.

2011-07-30T17:50:00.005-04:00

Today, we attended a funeral for a friend who lost her husband to cancer.

I remember sitting with her over the past weeks at hospice. Even during those days, she still had "hope". Hope that maybe a new doctor would operate, "hope" that a test would come back better than the last one, "hope" for a miracle.

As we remembered this young man today whose life was "full", I wanted to reach her hand and reassure her that "hope" is still there. It will look different and only "time" will reveal it.

I have listened to this song and thought of her every time I heard it.

"...this pain reminds us, that this is not our Home"

at home.

2011-07-29T09:20:00.004-04:00

We got home last night from the lake.  It was hard to leave but I was a little ready to get back.  I can only take so long sleeping with sand and a pull out bed.  We had a wonderful time and every year seems to get more enjoyable and relaxing.

Great weather. great company.

Great food. great memories.

I did a ton of reading (sorry, mom!)- read two great books!

Walked the beach a little and met up with "old" friends.

{Gum}

2011-07-19T10:26:00.003-04:00

I often get emails from readers asking me a variety of questions about all kinds of things I write about. I received an email recently from "Anna".  She asked...

"When your kids are not swimming, what do they do all day? I have a hard time finding activities for my kids throughout the day."

Great question. I struggle with that too- believe me! Well, I will say that I am blessed with two girls who have HUGE imaginations. The little things keep them busy. Give them stickers, notebook and a bell - they will play school for hours.

EXAMPLE-My girls must of taken my little camera and went outside to take pictures.

Pictures of them with "gum" in their mouth- I guess they thought it was funny!

Yes, they are in my van! They like to pretend they are driving their kids to school! :)

I think most kids will play- you just have to be diligent in turning off the tv, ninentendo and computer. It's hard...I know but I think kids just belong outside in the summer with a popsicle in their hand and a bug cage in the other! When all else fails, I bring out the sprinkler!

I {heart} these!

2011-07-15T12:14:00.003-04:00

I have a new love for these little "suckers" (no pun intended!).

I use to see these in the store and wonder who would buy them! They look like they belong in the desert somewhere. However, I have come to love these plants. They also "split" and re-plant very easy! Those little ones can just lay on the soil and soon it will take hold and spread! It takes a bulldozer to kill them- they are hearty ones!

The "stone"

2011-07-12T18:55:00.001-04:00

Probaly about 12 years ago, I went to my first Pampered Chef party. Don't you remember all jamming into a kitchen with a bunch of ladies and ooohhhhh'ing and ahhhhh'ing over all the amazing things you could make with crescent rolls.

Remember the taco rings???(I don't even know if they still market that~)

I remember the PC consultant holding up her very own stone 9 by 13 pan....it didn't look like the magazines. It was now a dark, dark brown. She would go on that she cooks "EVERYTHING" on this pan from cookies to crescent roll casserole. After she is done, cooking she sprinkles it with a dash of soap and cool water to clean.

Everyone in that kitchen would silently dream of one day owning that pan and having it turn a dark, dark, dark brown that proves anything and everything will cook "perfect" on it. Well, I am being over dramatic and I haven't been to a Pampered Chef party in a VERY long time. However, I am a proud owner of one of those pans that I bought 12 years ago and mine looks just like the consultants now.

....and honestly, it does cook many things just perfect and I do protect this pan. It has it's very own spot in the cupboard because I would be heart broken if it broke. It is dark and it is stained and it's a dreamy to cook with!

It can bake a perfect chocolate chip cookie and they go fast around here. Swimming and food seems to go hand in hand especially with lots of kids over. I can take out a cut watermelon and in 10 minutes bring in just seeds and rinds. It's like I am feeding piranhas off the Amazon!

I think I am going to "google" if Pampered Chef is still in business. I may need another "stone" pan before this one breaks!

{Saturday}

2011-07-09T11:24:00.011-04:00

It was 8:55am and everyone was still asleep. I "sneeked" out and went to our local farmer's market. The moment I opened my van door, I knew the "bread man" was there today. He bakes bread in a big ole stone oven with a hint of bacon and tuscan mixed. He also makes a dressing that is to die for!!!

After, the farmer's market...I drove around and got my first iced latte this summer. Can you believe it was my first? It was a treat!

Then right around the corner, I went and picked up a book on hold at the library. I have been waiting for this book for weeks! Finally, it was in! "A Homemade Life" by Molly Wizenberg~

"...she found herself peering through windows of chocolate shops...tasting cheeses at outdoor markets until one evening when she sat in the Luxembourg Gardens reading cookbooks until it was dark to see, she realized that her heart was not in her studies but in the kitchen."

I can't wait to dive into this book with all it's recipes, tips and delightful reads~

Off to enjoy this 90 degree weather in the pool with splashing kids and a good "read"!

Not your normal {Broth}

2011-07-07T00:00:00.001-04:00

I am thrilled to be part of the Knorr Four Recipe Contest hosted by Blogher! I was sent the new Knorr Homestyle Stock. It is full of the perfect herbs and vegetables and taste just like a stock made from scratch. Each little tub makes 3 1/2 cups of broth and is a much better value than cans! I loved it because it can be diluted with almost any liquid and was perfect in my "cheese" sauce!

I remember my grandmother making a similar recipe. But, this is my own recipe that I have changed here and there as the years have passed. It's a great casserole that has a wonderful homemade taste filled with great stuff like cheese, chicken and wild rice.

"Home style Wild Rice and Chicken Casserole"

(Prep time-25 minutes; Bake time-30 minutes; Serves- 10 to 12 people)

Ingredients:

4 T of oil

1 cup onion (diced)

1 cup of carrots (chopped)

3 cloves of garlic (minced)

2 cups cooked chicken (chopped)

3 cups of prepared wild rice

1 tsp. of salt and pepper

Sauce:

5 T butter

1/4 cup flour

1/2 tsp. of pepper and salt

2 cups of Knorr Homestyle Stock prepared

2 cups of shredded cheddar cheese

* Preheat the oven to 350. In a pot, heat the oil over medium heat. Saute onion, carrots and garlic until it is soft. Stir in cooked chicken, rice and spices. Set aside while making sauce.* To make sauce- Melt butter over medium heat in saucepan. Stir in flour, salt and pepper then slowly stir in Knorr Homestyle Stock. Stir until thick and then stir in 1 1/2 cups of cheese until melted. Pour sauce into rice mixture and put in "sprayed" 9x13 baking dish.

Sprinkle the 1/2 cup of shredded cheese over casserole and bake for 30 minutes.

Serve with side salad and bread. Enjoy!

Need I say more?

2011-07-06T16:38:00.002-04:00

Celebrate the 4th with "strawberries"!

2011-07-04T09:56:00.005-04:00

Tonight, we are off to some friend's house for 4th of July Fireworks! I made a simple "treat" that goes perfect with the 4th of July! You just need white chocolate, fresh-red strawberries and blue sprinkles.

Melt the chocolate and add 2 T of oil to make the chocolate smooth.

Dip the strawberries in the white chocolate and then immediately into the blue sprinkles.

Lay on wax paper and let harden.

Place on a glass plate with a big red and blue ribbon and you are ready to bring in the 4th!

Happy 4th!

2011-07-02T13:59:00.004-04:00

Paint a ROCK!

2011-07-01T08:28:00.007-04:00

It's been a very busy house around here.  I am officially waiting for my kids to grow "fins" and "gills" any day now.  It's been HOT and perfect swimming weather.

However, even with a pool, my kids can get bored or look for other things to do with their friends. Yesterday, I pulled out the paint pens (LOVE THEM!)by Crayola and the kids painted rocks. After, collecting the best and the smoothest it was lots of fun showing off their artistic abilities even on a rock.

It's probaly the cheapest summer activity and the kids really think it's pretty neat! Right now, my pond is surrounded by beautiful, painted rocks!

Super Easy Summer Activity!

They eat it...if they make it!

2011-06-29T22:20:00.004-04:00

This summer, I have noticed that my kids have become "picky" in their very own special way. We seem to have the same discussion almost EVERY day. It goes something like this...

"If you don't eat your dinner there will not be anything the rest of the night."

"You cannot leave that table till you eat all that chicken and the rest of your green beans."

"No, you can't eat gummy bears for breakfast or ice cream for lunch...no not even a popsicle."

I have noticed that if my kids help prepare the meal or even make it- they eat it! We love to make little pizzas at our house. Meijer's (if you have one by you) has great frozen pizza crust with their organic, natural pizza sauce. I stock up on them and they defrost quickly on the counter.

Do you think if I have them cut up the broccoli, tomatoes and red onion that they will eat their broccoli salad??

I am going to try that but I am doubtful.

Saying Goodbye...

2011-06-24T00:00:00.001-04:00

Today, my son had to say "goodbye" to one of his best~est friends who is moving FAR away.  He has known him since 2nd grade and there was an instant connection.  As the years have passed and even a switch to different schools- they have remained bosom buddies.

Even when schedules got crazy and homework piled up and spending time together was limited- they would get back together just as if they saw each other every day...they never seemed to miss a beat.

As boys get older, competition grows stronger...who is the "best"..who is the "strongest"...who can hold their "breath" the longest but not much with these two. They didn't have to compete or prove anything- their friendship didn't call for it. They just enjoyed each other's company. It's funny- they were always "busy" doing boy things and I never caught them talking much. But, they did.

As we quickly said goodbyes (the second time!), I closed the door and saw tears streaming down my son's face. I asked if he wanted to go back out and give him a hug. He said "Mom, boys don't hug but he knows I will miss him". It's the hardest thing to see your son so sad and upset. Of course, I started crying, too. I wanted to take the pain away but I know I can't. It's all part of life and it has many {goodbyes} that come in different packages.

I hope my son will cherish his memories with his friend and search for those qualities in new friends he makes along the way.

They will be missed!

A day at the "Spa"

2011-06-23T00:00:00.003-04:00

Our pool became a SPA...
{well, at least to these young girls!}

Lavender Nail Polish and Glitter on Top!

{I got to sit in the water and paint-not a bad summer job!}

Kid's Jobs Around the House

2011-06-20T13:37:00.006-04:00

I would love to tell you that I have done an excellent job with my kids and working around the house.  NOT so!  I have tried so so so so MANY things from sticker charts, popsicle sticks, calendars, lists, rotation schedules, magnetic- "y" thingys on my frig from books, clipboards, marbles in a jar to flipping notecards.  You get the point- none of it works...none of it will last{at least in this house}!!!

Lately, I found a "system" {if that is what you want to call it}-that is working and is lasting! It's simple and it's cheap. It works for me and it may or may not work for you!

It's a simple notebook-.87 at Dollar General! On the back of the front cover, I have a small list typed of what is to be done "Everyday...Right Away". This is expected to be done without a hint of a reminder, nag, command or a point of a finger to go upstairs.

After breakfast, we do a little Proverbs reading and then I pass out the notebooks. Some days it's a lot and some days it's not! I have written a list of jobs that I want them to do in the morning...each child has their own list and jobs. It can be anything from cleaning the bathroom, checking the pool water to pulling the weeds in the front bed.

I have really loved this system b/c we are actually getting things done around here! Those days that we are gone from the house the notebooks sit for the next day or later that afternoon. However, the "Everyday...Right Away" list is done everyday! I can "tailor" what I write to the needs around the house that week. Sometimes, as things "pop" in my head I can write them in the notebooks for future days{my kids just love that!..Ha!}.

After all the jobs are done in the morning, they return their notebook to the kitchen.

That's it- easy peasy lemon squeezy!

Is there whining, moping and bad attitudes? Yes. But, slowly we are working through that EVERYDAY. The biggest thing is ME. Some days it's easier just for me to empty that dishwasher or make that bed. I have to make a conscious effort to keep going and keep my expectations high for them.

Do your kids know how to do all this? No. I literally did a little "tutorial" on how to clean a bathroom. They all squeezed in the bathroom as I took them step by step on how to clean a bathroom. We have even done "tutorial" on how to put your clothes in the drawer. They all have their own garden gloves for pulling weeds. This is the hardest part!

What if a job is not done well? If a job is not done well and it's because of "laziness" or rushing to get done- you do it over and may be assigned another job. It depends on the situation. My kids are learning {slowly} that it's better to do it right b/c they will have to redo it!

It's nice to have a clean bathrooms and garden beds without weeds but what is more important is that my kids realize and know that they are important to this "home". They are needed and can do this! :)

We read the perfect Proverbs this morning:

"Do not love sleep, lest you come to poverty;
Open your eyes, and you will be satisfied with bread. "

Great verse for that pre-teen who thinks he should not have to do anything till noon!

Just them.

2011-06-20T12:38:00.003-04:00

I am always looking for simple and fun (plus cheap) activities to do with the kids.  Making smores in the backyard is one of our favorites!  You can buy a cheap "fire" pit- they sell them everywhere and you don't need "fancy".
Graham crackers, marshmallows and chocolate!  Put chairs around the fire and woila!  A perfect summer activity!   It's also a great time for the family just to sit together and talk.  We had a great time listening to my son's camp stories and hearing about all the things he did.
I am always tempted to invite friends over for the fun.  But, as I look at my kids, I realize they are growing up really FAST!  I have become a little more "protective" of my time with just them.  The greatest and lasting relationships that they will have will be "family".

Happy Father's Day!

2011-06-19T21:43:00.003-04:00

What is behind a shot of a picture?

2011-06-17T17:23:00.006-04:00

The past couple of weeks, I have received several emails sharing how they love to look at my "summer" pictures and all the fun.  We are having a VeRy fun summer but it's still a picture.  There is no "sound"  that would show boredom, whining or  squabbling b/t siblings !

For example, I took a picture of my "stuffed green peppers"- right below.

I was going to post this wonderful recipe. Until when I opened the oven to take the picture-my youngest took one glance at the green peppers and began to cry. I mean REALLY cry that she wasn't eating it!!! Then within minutes, Mr. Sandy Toes came up to inform she MUST stop crying b/c he will be talking with his boss in just a couple of minutes. After, I fairly got her calmed down, my other daughter had lost a tack from her bulletin board and had stepped on it. So you can imagine- she was REALLY crying! After, soothing and first aid spray, she was doing better but very teary-eyed.

So I looked at her and encouraged her that we didn't have to go to her "Fine Arts" closing ceremony in the evening{Okay....yes, staying at home sounded good right then}. She quickly pulled out a sheet and said she had a speaking part and HAD to go! Within minutes of finding out, I had to go to the closing ceremony, my son's camp called. The form on Sunday had not been filled out correctly and they weren't sure if they would release my son to his friend's dad.

At that very moment, I had visions of us piling into the van to take a "hike" across the state to pick up my son whom I was missing like crazy! Finally, that was dealt so we were back to going to the closing ceremony for my daughter.

Whew!

Looking at this picture again...would you ever think that all this was going on within seconds of clicking this picture????

No.

Every blog and picture has a story- we don't always see beyond the amazing pictures and typed words. I can get totally caught up in blogs...the pictures, the colors, the activities but just like my blog there is more to the story behind that picture!

I guess we can use our imagination.

"Movie Night"

2011-06-16T17:43:00.004-04:00

We had some friends over for an afternoon of  swimming.  During my conversation, with the mom, she mentioned she had never seen the movie "Anne of Green Gables".  I was shocked especially since her daughter has read the book.  It is a truly delightful movie and Anne "with an E" is funny, charming and touching!

No girl or woman(for that matter) should ever go on with daily life and NOT see "Anne of Green Gables". We decided right then that they were coming over in a couple of days to watch it together. The evening was fun with a great movie plus popcorn, candy and "sundaes". It was a lot of fun!

We have already planned an evening for PART TWO!

Come to My House.

2011-06-15T00:00:00.003-04:00

Over the past couple of years, I have become friends with a beautiful woman(inside and outside) from my kid's school. We first met at a Bible study before our kids went to school together.  

I have always admired her cooking. Secretly, I would love to spend a day with her and just cook with her. She is oriental and everything is just so fresh and made from scratch. I don't think I have ever tasted anything she has made that I didn't like. I have gone with her to the Korean grocery store in the "city" but never seem to duplicate. Lately, I have falling in love with her iced white "tea" and asked for the recipe.

This week, I came upon it and decided it would be the perfect drink by the pool. I was in the grocery store buying the ingredients and I could not find one of the ingredients that was needed. I think I had every man and woman who worked there looking for this item. After about 15 minutes, it "dong" on me that I should just call her. Well, I found out this one item could not be found in the grocery store I was at but could be replaced with "fresh" (even better!) Then she asked what white raspberry tea bags I had. I told her I picked up a brand at the grocery store.

Immediately, she told me to come to her house today to pick up "tea bags". She had the "best" brand and hard to find but are the perfect tea bags for this drink. So I stopped by and she graciously gave me a whole tin of these "perfect" tea bags for this perfect summer drink.

It was such a simple gesture but one of friendship. So now I can make lots of white raspberry tea "drink" and think of this sweet lady with every sip.

Glimpses of Camp.

2011-06-14T00:00:00.000-04:00

Letters to camp.

2011-06-13T00:00:00.000-04:00

My son is off to camp. He is making his own meals over the fire, sleeping in the woods probaly going across the zip line as I type. It's a week of "stuff" he just loves to do with a friend he loves to be with. However, this week is bitter sweet. My son's friend is moving this month.

We wrote letters to him for every day of the week to put in the camp post office. His sister's letters were so sweet...I wanted to keep them. When my son opens up his "bag", I had a little surprise for him of something he loves with his first camp letter from me.

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Dear "Son",
I can’t believe you are off to camp!  I am so excited for you!!!!  I hope you have a wonderful time and be safe in ALL you do!   Papa use to tell me this verse every time I went away---   

Philippians 4:8   Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things [are] honest, whatsoever things [are] just, whatsoever things [are] pure, whatsoever things [are] lovely, whatsoever things [are] of good report; if [there be] any virtue, and if [there be] any praise, think on these things.

"Son", always do what is RIGHT even if you are alone.   Never follow the crowd- if they are doing something foolish, sinful or wrong.  We are not there but your Heavenly Father is watching and sees you.  Be a good testimony in all you do, in all you SAY, in all you think!

I love you so VERY much!!!!   
Mom
xxoo

"This could be our 1st official field trip"

2011-06-12T13:10:00.005-04:00

My girls will be doing Classical Conversations this upcoming school year.  They are in Cycle 3 which means American History.  I am very excited to study this with my girls.  So this weekend we went to some Indian Mounds, museum and a festival.

My kids grounded corn with rocks like the Indians, drilled holes in shells like the Indians and made necklaces. They even did some bow and arrow shooting plus "ax" throwing. The "ax" throwing was hard and they were heavy. My son loved it and did it MANY times!

It was a fun day. I told my kids that we could call this our first official field trip!

"Closing Up" another school year...

2011-06-10T14:29:00.004-04:00

Today, I organized my kids "bins" from the school year. I have one for each school year. Everything goes into them including art work(need a "wide bin), folders, report cards, notes from teachers and anything else that has made the year special(even their name tags).

What will I do next year??? I have to think about this one since we are home schooling.

Anyhow, this system has worked well for me and everything is neat and organized. So when my son or daughters marry off and move into their first place. Here will come "mom" with 12 bins of "school work" to welcome them in their new home...hee hee!

It feels like...

2011-06-09T09:31:00.004-04:00

SUMMER!

It officially feels like summer and we are starting off with really bad habits! But, it feels good! We are sleeping in...yipeee!!!! We eat breakfast late and lunch even later. Dinner is on the "go" b/c we are off to the ride the roller coasters at night. The laundry is building up but the pool feels so good!

Schedules will come and Reading will be required! But, not just yet.

4 days!

2011-06-07T18:59:00.004-04:00

In four days, my son is going off to camp with his friend. I am so excited for him but feel a bit "sad" already. He has never been gone this long....a whollllleeeee weeeekkk! This camp is the real thing! It's rustic...they sleep in "trees" (not joking), they cook their own meals on the fire and it's "outhouses" all the way!

I have heard they come home REALLY dirty even though they can shower. But, the question is "Do they?". It's a week of zip lines, canoeing, hiking, swimming and total FUN!I asked my son's friend mother if I will get to talk to him at all. The answer was "No" and I think my heart sank a little. I can write him letters and they will give it to him throughout the week.

I am not sure if he needs the "letters"...I think it's me who needs "letters"!

Summer "List"

2011-06-06T09:38:00.004-04:00

Checking it once...checking it twice...summer fun has begun!!!

We all sat around at breakfast and wrote what we all wanted to do this summer. I will try hard to check it all off but some of them can be a bit "challenging".

This activity gets us all excited for summer time!!!

First Milestone of many...

2011-06-04T00:00:00.001-04:00

My daughter graduated from kindergarten. She was very excited but a little sad to leave her teachers and class. The school had a wonderful little ceremony and all her class came to our home for a little swim party after. It is a very sweet class and I know it is hard for her to say "goodbye".

I put all her little certificates, art work and special mementos of the year in her kindergarten box.

Every year goes a little faster...

undefeated.

2011-06-03T09:03:00.004-04:00

Congratulations to my daughter's soccer team! They had an undefeated season and won the Championship Final Game last night! Way to go! It's been a fun season and a great team to watch!

Grilling Pizzzzaaassss

2011-05-31T00:00:00.001-04:00

Friday night, I got together with a group of wonderful, funny and "fun to be with" women.   We laughed and told stories way past midnight.  Staying up to midnight use to be easy but I pay for it the next day for sure now!

The hostess grilled pizzas on her big, outdoor green oven (i forgot the name).  They were wonderful!  Of course, I came home and tried to duplicate her wonderful pizzas (veggie, hawaiian).  I even went out and bought a "stone" for my grill.  I was so excited.  However, my crust stuck to my stone and it was not to pretty!!!   Besides, my stuck pizzas, we did a lot of grilling all week even lunch!

The "men" did a lot of work. Mulching and more mulching and more mulching. My son worked so hard and was a trooper till the end.

His job was spreading and getting around all the plants!

We, girls, did clean the garage but after we finished- did a little lounging to keep out of the way of the "men" working!

It's OPEN!

2011-05-29T19:34:00.003-04:00

Our local farmer's market was this Saturday!

I was so excited to go. I love buying the fresh vegetables and flowers. Of course, I don't always know what to do with it all when I come home or how to prepare it. I also can be a "sucker" for lavender soap, dip mixes, homemade scones and all the other fun things they sell. Everything just seems fresh and good.

I must say that I noticed that prices REALLY have gone up. I was a bit "sticker" shocked at some of the prices.

My three kids love to go and look at all the stuff. Of course, they have "eyes" only for the ice cone lady. I must say they are like no ice cones you have ever tasted. The syrup is homemade that goes on the ice. They are really good but not at 8:30 in the morning! :)

"It's in the air"

2011-05-23T08:31:00.003-04:00

Summer is right around the corner and I can't wait....
We made our first "official" strawberry shortcake and the smell of sun tan lotion was in the air this weekend. I am ready for slower days, lots of swimming and popsicle eating!

I still want to clean from top to bottom all my kids rooms before school ends. When I clean my daughter's room especially her drawers...she will NOT let me throw out anything. Everything is a "treasure" to her!

We have to make our "What do We Want To Do this Summer..." poster! I will share it with you once it's done! I have to pull out the basket of towels and organize all the pool toys and hose down all the chairs! Looking forward to a great summer....

What are some of the things you have to do to get ready for "summer vacation"???

not even frozen pizza

2011-05-22T18:25:00.003-04:00

I have cooked for a number of years...I think I am getting gradually worse than better.  I can't even cook a frozen pizza right anymore.

here's another picture...

As my kids walked into the kitchen- I quickly pointed to my chalkboard!

Nametags and "never"

2011-05-17T08:49:00.007-04:00

A couple of years ago, I tried, endeavored, attempted to home school my kids. I am a teacher by trade. So my first day of home schooling, I had name tags on the desk and a BIG ole Huge sign that said "Welcome!". My two kids at that time sat down and I took attendance. I am sure somewhere in my pile of stuff...I had "tardy slips" ready to go. Yep, I sure did!

Our first assignment was to do a poster "About Me". Oh..it makes me laugh- here we three sat as we knew everything about each other doing a poster about our "favorites". I was there when they were born and we all knew each others favorite foods,color and how many family members they had. It makes me laugh thinking about it.

Our day started promptly at 8:00am and ended at 4:00 with a lunch and recess break and my whistle around my neck. We stood for the Pledge of Allegiance and ate a snack promptly at 10:30 on their rug mats. Well, to say no more, this lasted maybe 4 days until I called the principal and re-enrolled them. As I dropped them off, I remember saying I will "never" home school" again.

Fast forward four years and I am 'eating' those words! We have decided to home school our kids next year. I am scared, sad, excited...every emotion! I know it works...I know the results...but I constantly question will it work for us?

I have three teaching degrees and I have taught classes with 28+ students but somehow teaching my 3 kids scares me to death.

So I guess this little blog of mine- may be changing a bit as you adventure with me down this road of "home schooling". I may have to change the title of this blog to "Shells Academy"!

A snapshot of the school year

2011-05-16T08:00:00.003-04:00

Soon, the backpacks will be put in the closet and the lunch boxes will be "super-cleaned". The uniforms will be packed away and they will be replaced with flip flops and bathing suits. It's been another good year...well, great year! My kids have been blessed with amazing teachers and learned more than just the ABC's and 123's.

It's been a year of BIG decisions. Hard decisions...very very hard decisions. I can handle hard decisions but when it affects my kids- it's ReAlly hard! It's hard to leave something so beautiful, so right...so amazing because simply life deals us different things at different times. It's hard to give up something that is just such a great fit. It's the kind of decision that makes you 2nd guess it EVERYDAY. It's the kind of decision that makes you wish that YOU were not the adult who needs to be responsible and wise.

We are doing something "new" next school year but for right now let's take a look back~I am still walking the hall ways of this amazing school and I need to get through the next two weeks without melting into a puddle of tears!

"Psa 37:5 Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it."

She sits.

2011-05-15T18:26:00.005-04:00

My girls are "best of friends"..well, most of the time!  When it's just them, they are glued together-

My oldest daughter plays piano. When she practices, my youngest will "sit" on the steps and wait! She waits and waits and then waits some more. She also will announce throughout the 1/2 hour of practice...that her sister has 14 more minutes, 7 more minutes even 40 more seconds!

I think my youngest gets more upset when I say "Practice Piano" then the one who actually has to practice!

My "green thumb" is brown

2011-05-05T13:41:00.004-04:00

I picked up some plants today from a school sale.  They are sitting on my driveway soaking up the sun.  Usually, I am weeks ahead in planting.  I am the type who has to go around and cover up all my plants with pillowcases every night.  However, this Spring is different.

I feel completely overwhelmed with the work we have outside from weeding, trimming, planting, mulching-ahhh! Just writing this makes me want to take a nap. It's like all this rain had "Miracle Grow" in it- everything has doubled in size and screaming for a "haircut".

Then right next door are my neighbors! Their house is perfect. Every bush is rounded...every rock is in it's place- it looks like the grounds of Disney world. I barely ever see them out. I swear they come out at night and trim their bushes with scissors. I know one night-I will catch him in his robe kneeling by one of his perfectly trimmed bushes.

No children-professionals! They leave early and come back late. A couple of weeks ago, my daughter was drawing with chalk. Somehow she found her way over there and drawed a picture on their driveway. A BIG ole' house with flowers and "Welcome home".! Oh my! I quickly whisped her away. Hoping to not see their face as they pull up to their newly colored driveway!

I think my kids amuse them though. I caught him chuckling as my kids were in the front playing the "twirling game". You know the game where you keep twirling until you fall! Even though they have the most amazing roses- I think deep down they love the dandelion bouquets my girls give them and the dirt soup they serve them.

"wooly" love!

2011-04-27T00:00:00.001-04:00

I was at a conference a couple of weeks ago and my friend and I both bought these fun crafts for our girls.  They  are "wool" crafts that make little woolly animals like sheep, frogs or birds.  It's a wonderful and easy craft for my daughter but it looks pretty fancy.

It's wool and a "sharp" needle and a lot little movements to make the animal. My daughter got the hang of it pretty quickly and could move that needle around.

The wool sticks to the base by taking the needle and moving it up and down. It's amazing!

You make the ears, head and legs by rolling the wool on a stick. Then you use the needle to stick it on the body of the animal. It's so cute, soft and wooly. It's a wonderful craft. I just wish I would of bought another kit. I think we will finish these animals quite quickly.

It's wet.

2011-04-26T10:11:00.003-04:00

Rain, rain go away...come again another day!

It has been raining for days and today is no exception! It just feels like everything is wet and damp. You can almost smell it in the air.

Yesterday, our pool opened and today I had a major sticker "shock" buying chlorine. Yes, our gas has gone up and yes, the food prices are rising but chlorine??? Our water is a pure lime green but probaly tomorrow it will begin to clear. My youngest has asked me at least four times when she can go swimming. It's very exciting and it's HER year to jump in first!

This is what it looks like...

Soon it will look like this.... (fingers crossed!)

We are on our Spring Break and it's pure "R*E*L*A*X" around here! We are sleeping in (well, 8:30am- that is sleeping in around here!), eating hot muffins and watching movies in the morning from Redbox. It's all good!

First "hour" of Spring Break!

2011-04-21T19:18:00.006-04:00

Saturday "Night"

2011-04-16T20:27:00.004-04:00

I love when everyone  gathers together and watches a movie on Saturday night.  Of course, as the movie plays...little ones fall asleep.....one after

another!

Then there is my son who stays awake longer than I or his dad. Right when, I shot that picture he was saying "Mom, stop taking pictures of us!"

They were watching the "Silver Chair". It is a great book but the movie is not well done but they love it!

The Farmer and the Dell...

2011-04-15T11:03:00.006-04:00

Yesterday, I went on an awesome field trip with my kindergartner.  They got to do so MANY fun things from milking a goat to feeding a goat, to brushing the mane of a horse to actually "rounding" up baby goats around the farm.  It was a great day!

Our "farmer"(he is the one who leads you around the farm) was EXCELLENT. He was amazing with the kids and I think went out of his way to make it extra special. I think we took the "scenic" route..he had us through a pasture, past the gate, down the hill...in a remote area to roam with the goats. The kids were loving it!

It's always a little bittersweet for me on field trips. It makes me want to "teach" again. I loved field trips when I taught especially to the farm. We would do all kinds of special things leading up to the field trip "day". Even during the field trip, we would have special "activities" for the kids to think about and find on the farm (with their chaperones) then we would come back and discuss them. We always made "special" t shirts before our field trips and I would get lonnnggg paper and we would make BIG Mural Story Lines about what we learned at the farm. I would send questions home for the parents to ask their kids that night:) (so even if they couldn't come-they wouldn't miss hearing about it!). Oh..we had so much fun!

Feeling like Mary Poppins...

2011-04-11T09:55:00.006-04:00

One of my favorite stores is Anthropologie.  I just like being in the store.  Just sit me down in one of their big puffy coaches and let me read all their "fun" books. I must admit I buy a few kitchen items here and there but that is about it.

On my birthday, my mom took me to Anthropologie to pick out a gift. I felt like I was 8 years old and it was my birthday going into Toys R Us and picking out a Cabbage Patch doll. But, instead of Toys R Us ...it was Anthropologie. Things just don't seem to really change much!

I found the cutest purse. It's big, flowery and I feel like Mary Poppins and I love it! My mom also bought me these cute "mugs" which I will show you tomorrow b/c we did something a little special with them:).

Here I am!

2011-04-09T20:30:00.004-04:00

Well, if you have been visiting my blog over this week. I think you have just about had enough of that "birthday song". Gracious me!

It has been a crazy week. From celebrating my last year in my thirties to finding myself in the ER with my daughter last night. She is totally fine but very sore. She took a bad landing at the roller rink...ouch! We should really know by now that roller rinks and my family are NOT a good combination! My son broke his arm there about three years ago.

When I called my husband from the hospital, I was a bit apprehensive. My friend had already told him. So when he answered..it went something like this...

"I am not going to bring this up again. But, can we now agree that our kids will not go to anymore skating parties?"

ahh...yeah!

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Well, I promise to be a better "blogger" next week! I pinky swear. I can't wait to show you my new purse from Anthropologie{thank you, mom!}. I love it- I feel like a flowery Mary Poppins and I don't care!

Let's end with ~My favorite picture of the week....

{and it's also the ONLY picture I took this week!}